January 15th, 2010 by Sarah Newton

Parenting Advice for the modern generation

Here is our 2010 video for you all Enjoy!

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October 24th, 2009 by Sarah Newton

“Lisa Warner’s Fink Cards are some of the most exciting and creative ideas I’ve ever seen to stimulate family conversation and connection. Any family would want them in their home as a key component to the harmony and understanding we are all looking for.”
Lynne Franks,

Founder of the SEED Women’s Network.

October 20th, 2009 by Kate Yaffe

We love this post from Vanessa Van Petten’s Blog. A bit of fun and just what we need on a Wednesday morning,

1) Mom CEO

The mom CEO has a 10 year plan and runs her family like a business. I have seen these moms manage soccer snacks, dinner, homework help and husband massage like any pro-ceo.

How you recognize a Mom CEO: Her diaper bag looks like a briefcase and family vacations have itineraries.

2) MomMe

MomMe’s are very aware of sanctimommy time as well as kid play time. They identify themselves as mom’s AND (they remind you constantly) individuals

How you recognize a MomMe: Goes to childless yoga and has a constantly approaches you for playdates at your house, but remind you to ‘only call the nanny as you will have your cell off.’

3) Momtrepreneur

Love you the momtrepreneurs. They are blogging, crafting, conference calling and selling all the way to through the afterschool pickup line.

How you recognize a Momtrepreneur: She gives you a business card/product card/her website after PTA.

4) UberMom (or as I have heard some say the uber boober while breast feeding)

This is the 2009 version of the helicopter mom. Ubermoms are not nearly as obvious about hovering as helicopter mom’s were, but are the secret guiding hand behind everything their child does.

How you recognize an UberMom: You ask their child why they do gymnastics/swimming/flute/Curling and they say ‘I don’t know, ask my mom.’

5) Cosmomom

Think Carrie of Sex and the City at daycare. Social, hip and still manages to go to the latest club opening after bedtime stories.

How you recognize a Cosmomom: Her Manolo Blaniks are one inch lower than when she was single, but her Dior Diaper bag has two shades of Channel lip gloss…park and bakesale.

October 14th, 2009 by Sarah Newton

5 Tips for Creating “Calm” at Home – Set Clear Boundaries -Jane Richards

Tip#1: Get on the Same Page
If you co-parent, it is imperative to get on the same “parenting page” as your partner. Kids know all about divide and conquer; therefore it is important to present a united front when it comes to limits, expectations, rules and routines.

Tip #2: Lead by Example
Practice what you preach and model the behaviour you expect your children to exhibit. If you want your kids to respect you and the boundaries at home, you must consistently adhere to them.

Tip #3: Set Your Child Up for Success
If you have young kids, boundaries can be very specific. “Brush your teeth before bed.” “Wear your helmet when you ride your bike.” But as your kids mature, creating boundaries takes more thought and planning. For example, let’s take homework:

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October 12th, 2009 by Sarah Newton

Facebook is good for your kids.

So, I know this post is a little controversial, but bear with me here. I was recently talking to a parent whose son has not done so well in Maths and she was complaining that he was spending all his time on Facebook, particularly on Farmville. I told her that was great and she should not worry, but she really was not convinced so this post is for her and all of those parents who think Facebook is just a waste of time.

Now, I think that Facebook has many great things. Not only does it teach children to manage many relationships, (their brains are changing as a result), it also allows them to express how they feel and reach out for support. And if your child friends you (a whole other story) you really learn a lot about them.

However, my biggest love at the moment is Farmville..

So, for those of you who are wondering what I am talking about…

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